Honesty is within yourself.

Its been quite an interesting trip in my life and spiritual life, talking to people and learning from my situations in life and their situations aswell.

Today a friend of mine came upset to tell me how tired of the guys that she likes are selfish and only think in themselves even if they are in a relationship. What happened is that she met this guy, that she likes since a few months ago, finally they started to talk and she brought him a present for his pet, which he accepted. She told me she sent him nice txt and told him that she was interested in him, the same day she gave him the toy, she got a txt telling her that he was involved with someone else and for that reason he was not kissing her at all..

I just laughed and made my point: Look you live in a world where everyone is so selfish and very little people nowadays care for the others, everybody is mostly looking to see what are they missing and they do not really know what they want in life. This person never mentioned the guy in his conversations which means the logic one: he is not a honest guy at all. If you have a person in your life that loves you and you know someone likes you, the best thing to do is to bring it on the conversation on say: hey look, you are an amazing and good looking girl/guy but at this moment I am involved with someone. The funny part is, barely people do it.

I have been there too, where you go out met a person and you think: wow there is a connection, but people just take things for granted or are total dishonest within themselves.

Today learn that it is not your fault that these people have no respect for anyone else because clearly to me they do not have respect to themselves.

You keep yourself as you are, do not change for these people that have not respect for someone else, because the lack of self love and dishonesty can become contagious thinking that you are not enough.. but let me tell you something: If you can not be happy within yourself you are never gonna be happy with anyone.

Relationships should be freedom to be who you are, a field of sharing, loving and understanding each other in all levels. Remember we are all different among us in many things but we are all connected by one light and one reason... to help each other to be better spiritual entities and reach the next level.

Have a wonderful weekend!

Marco